抛开老生常谈的中年危机，他说的美国医疗困局是实实在在的。我们最近很多和医院，临床合作的intervention结果都不理想，在和大老板们汇报，他们出乎意料的理解，病人自己选择的生活方式就注定了结果，手术，药物和其他的干预总有无能为力的时候。
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这些都可以通过further studies来解决，比如说看看病人的genetic composition and try to correlate with prognosis 之类的。结果他的选择是 quit。个人感觉，他说他interested in neuroscience，其实更像是被父母/others implant the idea of becoming a neurosurgeon, not his own choice.
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同意，too many luxury options for him.
那个能算中年危机么？从幼儿开始就是危机重重了 
打开看了个开头，语速太慢了看不下去。这种语速，不太像MIT的
而且讲了半天就在絮絮叨叨讲他自己，没什么interesting stories，根本看不下去
我现在也有这种感觉：非内源的动力，即使被外力塑造得很好，也很可能会在某一天突然被一些看起来无足轻重的负面因素直接击溃。然后整个人就萎了。
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政治局常委们说话都很慢的 
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同理，那种我也看不下去
无病呻吟，鉴定完毕。
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"persbride"是啥意思？止疼药当然有用啊。最终肯定是需要依靠人体自愈，但是不止疼，普通人能抗住手术、以及术后？
哥要不是在美国读书在香港的话应该幸福多了
这边private做医美60-80k usd一个月还9-6 15% tax
gi cardi private都是1m usd一年
美国医生读这么多书比big tech搬砖赚的还少性价比太低了
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大家看油管是不是都 x1.5 速度起？
神外能吊打tech吧，想赚几个m完全取决于自己想开几台手术，而且这还是人家30岁一开始就稳定的收入，tech得做到vp才可以pk一下吧，当然别的很一般的科室被tech吊打基本同意
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开半小时就到山里了
很难，你看看神外工资survey
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续集来了，又被推送到了
TLDR:
The video features a person reflecting on their decision to leave their career in neurosurgery and the profound impact of publicly sharing this choice. The creator begins by acknowledging the unexpected visibility and significant reaction their previous video received, which discussed their career change. This response opened a dialogue about the societal expectations that dictate a narrow path to happiness through professional success and conformity.
The creator delves into the consequences of living under these pressures, highlighting that despite achieving traditional markers of success, they felt unfulfilled and disconnected. The overwhelming feedback from viewers who resonated with this sentiment underscored a common societal narrative—that one must adhere to certain norms to achieve happiness and avoid loneliness.
As the video progresses, the creator explores their journey towards emotional honesty and self-acceptance. They discuss the importance of acknowledging all emotions, including those considered negative or uncomfortable. By embracing the full spectrum of their feelings, the creator experiences a shift towards genuine self-awareness and healing. This process involves confronting emotions like fear, regret, and guilt, treating them as integral parts of their psyche rather than aspects to be suppressed.
The narrative is interspersed with personal anecdotes and reflections on the broader human experience, suggesting that many people suppress their true desires and feelings to fit into societal molds, which can lead to a dissonance between one’s external accomplishments and internal satisfaction.
The video concludes with a message of empowerment and encouragement for others to embrace their full emotional range. The creator emphasizes that recognizing and accepting one’s feelings can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life, challenging the viewer to reconsider their own relationship with societal expectations and personal authenticity.
该视频展示了一个人在反思自己离开神经外科职业的决定以及公开分享这一选择的深远影响。视频的开头，主播提到他们之前的视频反响出乎意料地大，该视频讨论了他们的职业变动。观众的反馈打开了一场关于社会期望的对话，这种期望规定了通往幸福的狭窄道路必须通过职业成功和从众。
主播深入探讨了在这些压力下生活的后果，强调尽管达到了传统的成功标准，他们感到未得到满足和脱节。观众的压倒性反馈强调了一个共同的社会叙述——一个人必须遵循某些规范才能实现幸福并避免孤独。
随着视频的进展，主播探讨了他们朝向情感诚实和自我接受的旅程。他们讨论了承认所有情感的重要性，包括那些被认为是负面的或不舒服的情感。通过接纳情感的全谱系，主播经历了朝向真正的自我意识和疗愈的转变。这个过程涉及到面对恐惧、遗憾和内疚等情感，将它们视为心灵的一部分，而不是应该被压抑的方面。
叙述中穿插着个人轶事和对更广泛人类经验的反思，暗示许多人为了适应社会模式而压抑了自己真实的欲望和感受，这可能导致一个人的外在成就与内心满足之间的不协调。
视频以一种赋权和鼓励他人接纳自己全部情感范围的信息结束。主播强调，认识和接受自己的情感可以带来更真实和充实的生活，挑战观众重新考虑他们与社会期望和个人真实性的关系。
小哥也没想到前个视频会这么火。take away：在互联网上倾诉心声要小心，一不小心就火爆全网。在泥潭真火了，也有可能被转发全网 
评论区又见不得别人好了，酸死
Mayo clinic 有研究，腰椎手术五年后恢复情况和不手术没什么区别。
当然前提是严重（比如瘫痪风险）病人一定需要手术干预
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2x一般，然后开字幕in case I missed anything